BALANCE OF BIRTH AND MIND AS AN EFFORT TO MAINTAIN FAMILY HARMONY (HADITH STUDY NARRATED TIRMIDHI)
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Peace obtained by a husband in guiding his wife can be achieved if the husband and wife carry out harmonious, harmonious and balanced cooperation. This study will examine hadith about husband and wife relationship. The hadith about husband and wife relations in the Gawamee Kaleem application informs that the matan hadith was narrated from 11 companions spread across several hadith books, but from some of these hadith books there are only three books that belong to the nine main hadith books (kutub at tis'ah), namely: Kitab Sunan Tirmidhi by Imam at-Tirmidhi, Sunan Ibn Majjah by Imam Ibn Majjah, and Sunan Darimi by Imam ad – Darimi.The author will examine one of the three, namely the hadith narrated by Tirmidhi No. 3,896 which states that a good man is one who does good to his family. The purpose of this study is to examine the quantity and quality of the hadith narrated by Tirmidhi about husband and wife relationships and to find out the picture in society about the balance of birth and mental income as an effort to maintain family harmony in Kembangsari Village. This research method is library research and field research. From the research it was found that the hadith narrated by Tirmidhi No. 3,896 concerning husband and wife relations is mutawatir and shohih. Fulfillment of physical and mental maintenance in Kembangsari Village to maintain family harmony is very important, based on this hadith, a husband must do good to his wife, especially in fulfilling physical and mental maintenance. The second most important part is fostering and maintaining communication between husband and wife in order to create a strong relationship between each other so that when a problem arises in the household, husband and wife can overcome and resolve it wisely, wisely and lovingly.
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